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Friendship~ =)
Friday, August 13, 2010 @9:09 PM

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Since I stepped into high school, I knew the importance of friendship. Because when we are far from home, we can't feel the comfort our warm family brings us. In a place away from home, we need to find friends to walk into our heart and share something with us.
I could still recall the good times when my friends played innocently with me and we liked to spread gossips of somebody or others, but we never had any evil intentions. We did them just for fun.

When I stepped into college, I tended to plunge myself into loneliness and sadness. But I could always go back home because it was really far. I developed friendship with others. And my principle was that I would rather need several genuine friends rather than enormous friends who never shared their true experience with me. I liked to go on with persons without any bad intentions.

Actually, this is not possible because the world is changing and people' s values differ with their experience, background,broad of vision and so on. Two persons without any similar interest or taste can never walk into each other' s heart. So my ideal value of developing friends is beyond reach. But I tried to keep with this principle.

I cherish friendship and always I regard my friends as my dear family members. During my spare time I even bring my friends home to enjoy food my mom does. I like to pour my feelings with my friends because I think friends can understand me and share joy and woe with me.
But lately I find myself in bad mood. One of my friends hurt me when I was driven into depression. I was utterly hurt and I began to wonder whether friendship can last long.

The thing went like this. I failed in an exam due to some unexpected situation. Many other persons comforted me when they got the news and hoped that I was quickly out of the damn thing. Yeah, she lived with me but she just took everything for granted.A failing performance led to a sad mood. But out of my expectation, she just ignored my feeling and even said some unfeeling words to worsen my hurt heart. I was deeply defeated by her scorching words. And I cried, not for my failure, but for the so-called friendship.

Yeah, this is just one case. Maybe I am unlucky to be confronted with such thing. I know true friendship exist. But I just wonder whether true friendship must be forged when the two are simultaneously driven into helplessness, because in this way they can help them other out without any other support or help.

I don' t know whether you have similar experience. One of my friends just tells me: Friendship is like water,and it can quench your thirsty. But sometimes we just ignore such cool and plain water. Instead we choose other drinks. They taste good but usually can' t help quench our thirsty or rather enhance our thirsty.

And another tells me that true friendship is like the aroma from natural flower. Even though flowers die away, the refreshing aroma can always haunt around us.
I still believe that true friendship exists in this world full of material luxury. Only true and pure friendship weathers through enough tests, can it last long.
Sophie Hu's, as an amateurish writer, likes reading books on western and eastern culture.
She keeps an eye on the fashion industry especially bags and enjoys investing in fashionable bags of affordable price.


In her spare time, she writes articles about her interests and shares her experiences of choosing stylish and favorable bags on http://www.bagsok.com/. 
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